Two important social events last weekend. Still recovering from overestimation, anxiety, under-awareness, over-awareness, and physical pain.

Unable to write WTSW blog for this week.

Instead, Robbie has a question for all of you: 

 What is a way of stimming that has often helped you? Share your favorite stim, or the stim that helps you the most! Or both!


-Anabelle & Robbie
 
 
Robbie is my boyfriend, and a part of my family. I have been struggling (more than usual) with words, and he generously offered to do a guest blog for me. so I could take a small break. Thank you, Robbie!

Yesterday, I was very sick. I needed to rest and take care of myself. These are two things that are difficult for me, as I am a very active person who likes to accomplish many things during the day. No matter how much I know that I need rest, sitting/laying down all day, makes me feel like I am wasting time.


Anabelle was amazing yesterday. She reminded me, frequently, that I needed to drink water and tea. She made sure that I was resting by making me meals so I didn't have stand and walk. Mostly, she was there for me, emotionally. She also made me realize that resting and taking care of myself IS NOT wasting time. When I felt horrible, I was so nice to know that she cared about so much that she spent all day with me coughing and sneezing and feeling bad.


I feel great that Anabelle and I have a relationship where we reciprocate emotional and physical support.

-Robbie-

 
 
Hello All,
     Last night was fairly difficult for Anabelle, however, I was reminded how amazing a tool the iPad is, for Anabelle.  The iPad helps her in a more than a few ways:

1)  The Proloquo2go program is absolutely worth it's weight in gold.  Last night is an example of a time when Anabelle, being stressed and overwhelmed, lost most of her ability to vocalize communication.  Without her iPad and Proloquo to type, our communication would have been reduced to gestures and handwriting.  Proloquo allows Anabelle to see letters and pictures and have the iPad speak for her.  It is faster than hand writing as well as easier for her to use.  She was able to quickly communicate with me regarding normal everyday things instead becoming quickly frustrated and angry at herself for not being able to talk.  



2) The iPad allows Anabelle to carry with her at all times, multiple alarms for various daily/weekly/monthly activities, as well as multiple calendars, timers, documents, photos, and the internet!  The iPad's organizational amazingness gives Anabelle the reassurance that she knows what is happening in her life at all times. This leads to a feeling of confident control where there would otherwise be overwhelmed desperation. 



3) Games may seem trivial, but there are endless amounts of free games available for download.  Games allow Anabelle to focus her overactive brain on something trivial like say. . . protecting a house from Zombies using a Garden of defensive plants, instead of obsessing on how painfully loud the multitude of sounds are in the Light Rail, bus, car, or crowded area, which will eventually lead to a meltdown.  


     There are many more amazing things for which the iPad helps Anabelle, I just chose to focus on the most obvious ones.  


     The iPad is an all around amazing tool, for anyone, especially for those on the Autism spectrum.

-Robbie